The fear of Uncertainty
Everything I've ever done, every decision I've ever made in life has been pretty black or white for me. For the first time in my life, I'm faced with "uncertainty", making a decision because you're not clear about life choices or you get too comfortable, feeling stuck yet uncertain. I've not been trusting my instincts recently. This self-doubt is ruining the 24th year of my life. What should I do? Even if I make a decision, will I be able to follow through? Will I be competent enough to live through my decision?
Every thought has popped into my head in the past 2 days. So what am I supposed to do? What do I need to do in order to survive another panic attack? I don't worry about that anymore because I have a plan and for the first time in my life I'm sure about my feelings.
The objective of this plan is to be happier. The execution will require me, working on the parts of my life that I'm unhappy about. Sounds simple right? Well, it's not. The secret to me achieving my objective is to believe that everything will be okay. If one thing doesn't work, another will(I haven't believed it yet but it'll take time, I'll reach there)
How do you get out of being stuck? (just like I am writing this article). Everything is changing and we need to be ready to change with everything. Maybe take a mental break before moving on to better things for you. Maybe talk to people who are motivated enough and understand you. Maybe visit the city you the most(too specific?) Every decision has consequences, select the one that has the favorable one. Otherwise, character development is difficult(and we love character development, don't we?)